But when the man with whom you're involved is part of another couple, someone else's husband, then the challenge and unpredictability can make your life a messy, unhappy waiting game that you will rarely win.The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.
Historically, extra-marital affairs were common, permissible and especially in the male’s case, not seen by the courts as substantial grounds for divorce. A friend of a friend of a friend swears that they’ve seen one, but the truth is that it’s just another urban legend. Sorry, but if statistics are anything to go by, it’s all baloney. But here’s the cold, hard truth: pursuing a married man isn’t worth it. Source A reformed cheater is like the story of the giant alligator living in the sewers.Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. As my friend Jenna* told me, "You can't help who you fall in love with.The love of your life just might be a married man." Being part of any couple can be challenging and unpredictable, as we all know.