"Satisfaction from sex comes when you understand that it's also meant to push somebody towards God and your relationship just grows as a result." Although he suggests singles should wait until marriage to have sex, Baoku says people should not focus on abstaining from it.
"I believe celibacy and abstinence derive from bad framework because when you think about that, it's all about what you're not doing," said Baoku.
"Singleness shouldn't be a waiting period for superman, it's about enjoying your life, God and relationships with others.
We should focus on establishing our careers, traveling, or pursing other things.
Often, it’s this attraction *or, more specifically, infatuation* that leads us to act strangely and impulsively.
We do things for the person to whom we are attracted that we wouldn’t do for other people.
But for most, the issue of dating involves "romantic attraction and desire." Therefore "dating" must be approached by what the Scripture says regarding romantic desire and marriage, the only relationship in which romantic desire is to be fully expressed.
If "dating" is defined as two single friends of the opposite sex doing things together for fun without any attraction or romantic desire or intimacy involved at all, there is no issue to discuss regarding dating. The Bible describes and gives directions concerning friendship.
This is a major reason why people get hurt, and why there's heartache.Long, passionate kissing definitely should be avoided.And French kissing is out--it's purpose is to be passionate and suggestive, not to express pure affection (plus, the stuff with the tongues just seems tacky, in my opinion)."Dating" is not a relationship, it is a method people employ in our culture to get to know others of the opposite sex that was not employed in Biblical times.The Bible does not talk about "dating," but it does talk about relationships.