They also can have an extreme sensitivity to particular sensory experiences.
That is me, not you but IF you hate your Aspieness or just are desperate to fit it that will hurt your interacactions with other people because as you mentioned in the article a lot of people pick up on desperation and in others and do not want to deal with it or want to take advantage of it.
Read Full Article I forget who said this, but if you’ve met one aspie, you’ve met one aspie. But you shouldn’t define yourself by Asperger’s either. If you’re calling yourself aspie89 on Tinder then you need to rethink your existence. Because if you do, you’re going to be an empty freaking hole that no one wants to talk to. People on the spectrum generally aren’t that approachable. I know the WP demographic is mostly male, but it would be nice if autistic women's issues could be addressed at some point.
You shouldn’t hold yourself to neurotypical standards. I'd be surprised if you have been relying on looks alone considering that you have a stable relationship and can write. But I am still a little frustrated by the white male dominance on the home page.
For those not familiar with AS, it is a mild autistic spectrum disorder, where those afflicted can lead ‘normal’ lives, but behave in a way that is rigid and lacking in sensitivity, living up to male stereotyping – in spades.
It’s no surprise then that men account for 90 per cent of AS diagnoses.